Is a pillow top mattress or tempurpedic good for anyone?

got a pillow top a few years ago as my husband was complaining that our mattress which I found perfect, was too firm. We agreed on a firmness and bought a pillow top mattress a few years ago. At first it was comfy, but I soon realized that you can’t flip a pillow top mattress, only rotate it which sort of makes it dip in both sides.. Not to mention it’s really hot! If we lived up north I might like it, but in Texas it makes us hot. The small back problems I had seem terrible when I wake up, and although it’s partly my age, I think some of it is due to the lack of support with the PT, which I got with a regular mattress. If you have back aches, is it better to have a firm or soft mattress?
K- thought of sleep number, but isn’t that kind of like an air mattress? I’m thinking of getting a king box spring and getting two twins of different firmness to put on top. Is that possible?


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